Tuesday, July 18, 2006

When will some people ever learn to grow up?

Honestly, when will some people learn to grow up?! My ex e-mailed me today! To recap what his e-mail said: As usual, talks about the farm, crops, and how he now enjoys the little piggies are being born right now because of me [I used to play with them, take pictures, and help with with what he needed me to do with them, clip nails, pull teeth, move them, etc.], about his trip he took to visit family down south, telling me Boo-Boo says hi [that's my bear I've had since I was two, we had swapped each other things we cherished our first summer apart, but I'll be getting back my bear come the school year, hopefully], that he keeps me in his prayers along with my family, twins/cubs chat. The last two things bug me the most that he mentions in his e-mail: 1. ) He realizes how much he really misses me now and 2.) Him bitching that no one calls or e-mails him at all!!! He complains for 3/4 of his e-mail about that! I respond with grow up and stop complaining. Friendships work two ways! I told him to try picking up a phone or writing his own friends e-mails! I find it funny that I don't count though! But he's really depressed and down that no one calls him. It's like grow up, damn it! I'm the only one who has kept in touch through e-mail. He used to call and I never would answer! I called twice and left two messages about a month ago now, and they haven't been returned. So I really don't want to hear him complain that no one calls or e-mails him because I'm the only one that does! You want to know why I don't count though?! Because he expects me to, it's as though I'm obligated to as though we're still dating! It's like, grr, grow up and move on with your life! So the e-mail I wrote him back is going to be a slap in the face! I really don't care about tip toeing around his feelings. I've had enough of him. I'm not even gonna try anymore. I'm going to say what I feel. He has to learn to deal with it all.

I do have to feel bad for him just a wee bit though. No one does talk to him. They all talk to me! I'm the one who gets drunk phone calls or regular phone calls. I'm the one who gets im's and e-mails from people. I talk to a bunch of our friends every night. But I have the ability to, while he doesn't because he has no internet at home. But that still does not excuse him for picking up the damn phone and calling people. So yeah. Okay enough of me ranting about how much my ex needs to grow up still!! See why I could never see myself with him again! He just makes me annoyed, mad, and angry all at the same time with his stupid bitching and complaining about the stupidest things! Grrr!!!

Well, I love my new background! It's four cocktail glasses at a tropical local! Yum! I'm really craving a really girly, fun, fruity cocktail!!! Do you like it?

Well, I don't really care if you do or not! All that matters is that I do! Hmmm...wow I'm really craving a cocktail right now, which is so rare for me! Well, luckily I'll be heading to Dubuque next week, so I can drink then! I'm looking forward to my trip! :)

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